Despite being very engaged in a recent conversation, you may still be
unsure about what the other person was trying to say. There could be a few
reasons for this, Moonchild. Maybe the individual is leaving something out -
either because they don't have the answer or because they are afraid to
share it. It's also possible that they don't want to say what they're
thinking for fear of being rejected or criticized. And then it could be
that they are telling you everything, but you don't like what they're
saying and you can't accept it. Figure out which it is, and you'll get to
the heart of it.
儘管你最近非常認真地跟對方溝通了，可是你也許仍然不太確定對方究竟試圖表達什
麼。這有幾種可能原因，月之子。或許這個人漏掉了某些東西——若不是因為他並沒
有答案，那就是他害怕說出口。他因為害怕被拒絕或被批評而不想說出自己的想法，
這也不無可能，再者，也或許是他把能說的都跟你說了，但是你並不喜歡，也不能接
受。想清楚是哪一種情況，然後你就可以碰觸到問題的核心了。